Balanced Life in Retirement

I recently came across this bit of wisdom about living a balanced and active life in retirement...

Whether we realize it or not, we do have structures to our day - regardless of how old we are or what stage of life we're in.

Mine begins at dawn - or even earlier now in our shorter daylight hours. I don't want to miss anything!

As I drink my first two glasses of water and then, the two cups of coffee that help me wake up, I read, reflect and pray - writing my prayers and gratitude in a journal notebook. I also note the weather for the day on my phenology calendar. 

At some point early in the day, as I think of it,  I write down what I'd like to accomplish that day. Terry and I, at some point early on, have a "meeting" - and talk about our personal goals for the day and make a meal plan.

Then we get up and start!

I should add that more often than not, I don't accomplish all I had hoped to do - but then, there's always tomorrow!

Craving Colour!

The past week has been rainy. So I pulled out a a few unfinished crochet projects and started working on them.

This multi-colour afghan pattern always cheers me up! I found two unfinished ones in my yarn stash - so here I go! (Ironically, the pattern is called "Apache Tears" - not "Apache Joy"!)

My mother, a high school home economics teacher, taught me this pattern in the 1960's. I love it! I have since made quite a few afghans - always with leftover yarn. The mix of colours adds an element of surprise.

 

After all these years, it's still my favourite crochet pattern - because of the many COLOURS! 

Still a Mystery...

I enjoy having houseplants, but even after dozens of years of indoor gardening, I feel that I really don't understand their needs. Of course, they all have different care requirements!

I bought a small Peace Lily quite a few years ago. It bloomed multiple times - but then stopped. 

I divided the plant into three - and added fresh soil. But only two have bloomed since then - and not very often. I know they need moisture and indirect sunlight...

But why does the one I keep under a small table have the glossiest leaves??! (Should I keep them all under tables?!)

I have absolutely no idea. I thought they needed - bright, indirect light! Maybe I'm wrong!

Seasonal Changes

Our front yard is covered in pine needles.

Our last summer flowers are nearing their end. Only two remain (above)!

A few weeks ago, there were dozens!

In our temperate climate, we learn flexibility. Nothing outdoors stays the same for long.

A tinge of sadness... Gardening season is over... Winter can be so long!

 

But for now, we do have fall colours to cheer us up!

And I have one indoor plant that is blooming!

I need to find new (colourful) things to do indoors ... to cheer me up over the next six months!

Adventure!

I came across an interesting book recently - called "HumanKind." It's a study of "kindness" - a "hopeful history."

The early chapters question whether - left to our own devices - humans would be kind, or cruel - like the boys in the novel "Lord of the Flies."

Hunting for a real life account of shipwrecked teens to compare with the shipwrecked youths in Lord of the Flies, the author of Humankind came upon an old news story (from the 1960's) about of a group of Tongan teens, ages 13 to 15, who "borrowed" a sailboat - then were shipwrecked in a storm. The boat was washed ashore on an uninhabited island, where the boys lived for 15 months before being rescued.

Reading their story in Humankind - then watching (on YouTube) the 1960's documentary made after they were found - made my day! They did so well in compassion and empathy...

What an adventure!

Don't Get a Ticket!!

The toys look cute -parked on one side of the street...

Oh, oh!

The sign says "No Parking"!

Little by Little...

Our basement is slowly returning to what it was before...

Our large storage room is done. The floor has now been painted, but... paint takes time to dry (and to "cure")!

After this long weekend (Canadian Thanksgiving) - shelving units will be returned to the storage room and we will begin to think about moving things back in!!

But then, the rest of the basement will need to be completed!

It all takes time.... But we're on our way!