Sunday, April 21, 2013

Re-thinking Work

One mistake I made when raising my children was not letting them "help" me enough. As pre-schoolers, they were so willing to "work"!














But they were young - and I was in a hurry. It was faster and less messy for me to do it myself!  Would I now be more willing to let a two-year-old stand on a chair and wash dishes (after I had removed all sharp or delicate objects)? Would I now let a three-year-old vacuum to his or her heart's content? I'd like to think I would... But at the time I put them off: "When you're older," I would tell them... (The only problem was that when they got older, their desire to help was gone!)

When does work stop being "fun" and turn into drudgery?!  When we learn how to do it, so that the challenge is gone?

I must confess that for too many years my "work" - things I had to do - had lost its fun. I don't want to live like that anymore. So I am re-thinking my concept of work... and I have been challenged by these words by Joan Chittister:

'Work - every kind of work: manual, intellectual, spiritual - is meant to be the human being's contribution to the development of the human race... We work, as well, to complete ourselves. We become more skilled, more creative, more effective. When we work we discover that we really are "good for something." ...

'Work is our gift to the future, ... and if we do it well,... it will be needed, and when we are not there to do it, it will be missed.'*

*Introduction to Deeper Wisdom, Holy Struggle, p. 27


Saturday, April 20, 2013

Reverse-Shopping

One of the sad aspects of modern life, for me, is the fast pace that electronics become obsolete and have to be discarded.


















I don't know if I'm a "frugalista" - as some of my friends call themselves.














But I definitely don't like to see perfectly good - but now inoperable - machines fill garbage dumps!


















It was with some sadness - and some relief - that I uncluttered a shelf this week by taking two now-obsolete printers back to the store I bought them at. (In our area, stores that sell electronics are obliged to take them back and have them safely re-cycled.)


















At the same time, I dropped off some clothing we no longer wear at my neighborhood "Nearly New" shop. Hopefully they can be used by others. In an ideal world, the same would be true of used electronics as well!

Friday, April 19, 2013

First Flowers of Spring

It's that time of the year when the snow shovel and the rake stand next to each other in our shed - I'm never sure which I'll need next!














But in spite of the uncertain weather, it felt more like spring than winter yesterday - and I saw my first spring flowers... in a neighbor's yard!














In our yard, the hellebores are on the verge of blooming, and the tulips are mere stalks pushing out of the ground.














I'll have to begin to sprinkle them with hot pepper - to keep the squirrels from eating them - or they won't bloom for long!

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Set of Mug Rugs

I invariably make mug rugs out of fabric scraps - so no two look alike...














But I recently received this set of mug rugs made from two fat quarters, with a layer of thin batting in between.














They were hand-quilted on a lap frame in one big piece - then cut apart.














I particularly like the way they were finished off.














The binding seam ended on the side, not at a corner. (I'm going to try this next time!)














The circular quilting pattern is easier to see in a dark, contrasting colored thread.














A beautiful gift from my daughter, whose quilting style is very different from mine!

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Identity Theft: A Normal Part of Life?

I'll never forget the first time I was blatantly robbed. Walking down a quiet residential street at twilight, I heard a motor cycle slowly approach. Its lights were off. Suddenly I felt a tug on the bag I was casually swinging at my side. My first thought was: My bag has accidentally caught the motorcycle's handle bars! But when the motorcycle quickly sped away, I realized that there had been nothing accidental about the loss of my bag.

I have experienced identity theft three times now - and each time, I feel as shocked and vulnerable as that time my purse was snatched.

I wrote a blog post about my other brush with identity theft - when someone applied for a credit card in my name - and left an unpaid debt behind. I am now amazed that this debt was associated with my credit rating. So much on the credit card application was not me: different address, maiden name, social insurance number, to name a few. Yet my credit rating was downgraded and I was in default. There are others with the same name. (Any google search will determine that.) Yet it took an uncomfortable week or so - and a lot of calls - to get everything sorted out again.)

My second brush with identity theft occurred when one of the stores I shop at had a security breach. My credit card company called to say that, to protect me, my card had been canceled but a new one would be issued.














Then a few weeks ago it happened again! Someone hacked my account at Apple - purchasing a music download which I was billed for. I discovered this when I received an email from Apple saying that changes had been made to my account: If I hadn't made these changes, I should change my password, which I promptly did. Nonetheless, a few hours later, I received a "receipt" for music purchased and downloaded. I quickly emailed the Itunes store to say that I had not made these purchases. Several hours later the money was refunded. But when I went onto my online account, I noticed that my answers to the security questions had been changed.

I was going to call this blog post: My Love-Hate Relationship With Apple... because the one thing I HATE about my ipod was that in order to use it (even to download free apps)  I had to provide Apple with credit card information. I tried to get around this - and, in fact, the most recent Apple rep I spoke to on the phone denies this is necessary. But I remember the frustrating week when I first got my ipod and was unsuccessfully trying to download free apps without it. I am again in a similar dilemma: In disabling anyone from purchasing from my account (a condition I agreed to) I now find I am unable to download free apps too, or make updates to free apps I do have. So I have to get that changed again!

The annoying thing about identity theft is the amount of time I've had to waste to clear up the problems and feel comfortable again. Most recently I spent half a day dealing with the problem when it first occurred. Then, a week later, a few more hours trying to get my security information "secure" again. Now trying to have my account set so that I can get free apps and updates.

I have also been told that Apple has disabled my credit card - but I would really like to be able to delete all record of it from their computer system. I've had a hard time doing that, too, but I think I've finally succeeded

(It would probably be wise to get credit card dedicated to internet purchases, so that if problems arose, one could simply cancel that card.)

I don't know if identity theft has become a normal part of everyday life for everyone these days -  but for me it definitely has! Fortunately I have always dealt with reputable companies - so they have been helpful in getting the problems sorted out. I would definitely avoid internet dealings with companies that have no reputation to protect.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

A Ton of Scraps

I finally finished the scrappy quilt top I started more than a week ago. There are a ton of scraps in it!














Okay, maybe not a ton!


















But 1.2 kilos of scraps (or 2 pounds 10.5 ounces), according to my kitchen scale! That must have put a dent in my bins of scraps - but none of them is empty yet!

Monday, April 15, 2013

Reno Memories

Our next door neighbor is beginning a major renovation...


















As I watch them take down their garage, I am reminded of our major reno project 13 years ago...














... when we removed our carport...















... and back deck...














... adding two rooms plus a bathroom and laundry (and more basement)...














... as well as enlarging our side porch.














We started in May...














... and were finally done by September .














We watched new walls being added, old ones broken down - all the while living in the chaos! It was a summer I will never forget!














In the end, it was definitely worth it!














(Even if it meant more driveway to shovel!)