Tuesday, February 4, 2025

Visiting Hay Lakes

My younger son travelled to Alberta with me last week, in part because he wanted to visit Hay Lakes, the village where I lived for the first six years of my life.


We decided to drive there from Edmonton on the Sunday after we arrived. 


Let's attend a church service in the church where I was baptized, I suggested. That way we can see the inside of the building.


My cousin Elizabeth drove us.We parked in the parking lot next to the church and headed in. 


There was coffee - and homemade cookies - before the service, so I introduce myself to the group of people who had gathered in the foyer:

When I was a child, I lived on Main Street, in an apartment above the garage my father owned, I told those who had come over to welcome us. And my mother was a teacher in the Hay Lakes School. I mentioned their names.

I remember your dad, one man said. He sold me a car.

Your mother was my fifth-grade teacher, said another man with a walker.

I remember walking down the road from Main Street to play with a little girl who lived in a farm on the right side of the road, right where the road splits, I told them.

When I mentioned the year I was born, the man with the walker said: That would have been my sister, Marlene. I grew up on that farm and I had five sisters. 


We stayed for the service and chatted again before heading out to wander around town.


I was elated to discover that there were still people living in Hay Lakes who remembered my parents - 70 years after they had been a part of that community.

Monday, February 3, 2025

More Christmas Cactus Stories



After I posted the picture of my late-blooming Christmas cactus with its red flowers, my cousin sent me this picture of her pink-flowered Christmas cactus.


It bloomed on January 19 - on Armenian Christmas, she informed me.

How many Christmas days are there? I wondered.


I checked online and, sure enough, although the eastern orthodox church celebrates Christmas on January 7, Jerusalem Armenians celebrate Christmas on January 19. 

One Armenian blogger said that her family celebrated 3 Christmases days every year!

Now, wouldn't that be fun?!

Sunday, February 2, 2025

Unplanned Winter Travel

Last week I took an unplanned trip to Alberta  - for my Uncle Bill's funeral.


He was the fourth of my mother's seven brothers - the joker of the family - who lit up a room with his stories and laughter.


For much of his life he was a "heavy haul" trucker.


(My brother called him "the original ice road trucker.")


One of his proudest moments was transporting the giant Easter egg (pysanka) that Vegreville is famous for.


It was good to see my mother's extended family and some of their friends whom I hadn't seen in decades! 


Such a joy to be there!

Saturday, February 1, 2025

Poverty Prison

My daughter recently sent me this CNN article about how some poor, unsupported elderly women in Japan deal with their poverty and loneliness...

They commit a petty crime (on purpose) - like stealing food -  so that they will end the up in a women's prison, where they have companionship and their basic needs met.

Wow! For me, that's hard to fathom...! 

Would anyone get a prison sentence in Canada for stealing food?! I can't imagine!

It makes me wonder what we do in Canada to help those in similar situations who have limited resources and no family support - who, in some cases, can no longer live on their own.

This whole homelessness situation - in different places of the world - is really a shock to me... something I never expected.

Friday, January 31, 2025

Indoor Flower Update



I really appreciate my indoor flowers at this time of the year. One new one is the Christmas cactus, which has never bloomed for me. I was away from home for a few days... 

While I was gone, it started to bloom. 


Two of my three peace lily flowers dried up - so I trimmed them off. But the one in the third pot is still blooming - and a second flower bud is developing there, too. That's progress! Last year the plant only had one flower.


In another room with a north-facing window, my only remaining African voilet is still in bloom. I used to have a few of them.


Next to it, an orchid is growing buds. Half of the plant is a stem full of buds. The other half is a healthy-looking bunch of aerial roots that apparently absorb moisture from the air.

It's always a challenge to make sure that every plant has the right soil, water and light it needs.  They are all so different. Every flower is a little victory: "Yay! I got it right!"

Thursday, January 30, 2025

Midwinter Break from the Ordinary


A few weeks ago, the priest at our neighborhood Anglican Church sent out an email about a one-day Ottawa-wide church conference called You Are Leaven. I signed up to go.


I didn't know what to expect... but it "called my name"! I knew I needed this!



So out we drove into the country one Saturday, a few weeks ago... to a little church in Winchester, Ontario. 

(As an aside, for those who know the name, Winchester is the hometown of George Beverly Shea - a singer of my mother's generation. Throughout his lifetime he returned to a cottage in the area.)

The day's program was organized and led by instructors from the Anglican Studies Department at St. Paul University in Ottawa - where Terry studied counseling when we first moved to Ottawa.



The day was wonderful! There was art... ("doodling prayer")... Singing... Great food... An introduction to writing a "spiritual autobiography." Also an interesting discussion on change, and why it's sometimes hard.




Sometimes - especially in winter - I need to do something totally different... This was just what I needed! A week later, I was still basking in the glow!

Wednesday, January 29, 2025

Busy January


January has been busy for me this year - in part because I averaged one medical - or dental - appointment a week.

For years I tried to not have any appointments in winter... in case the weather was bad.

Then last year, I got Covid in February - and appointments were moved around. To my dismay, a lot of things this year were scheduled for January.

But (on the plus side) the weather hasn't been that bad.

I was actually the first patient in the clinic for one of my appointments. So I took this picture of the empty waiting room. I may never see an empty one again!

Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Starting ... and Finishing

I have a habit of starting projects - at some point pausing, then leavng them - sometimes for long periods of time.

Often I encounter a difficulty that needs to be resolved - so I pause. Eventually I lose interest. My initial inspiration has evaporated!

I've always viewed this habit as a flaw of character that needs to be corrected.

But when I encountered this book title, I started to hunt for the book... I'd like to read it!

Good! Our public library has a copy! Now I have it on hold... I want to discover why this tendency isn't such a bad habit after all!

Monday, January 27, 2025

Rabbits or Squirrels?

Cats or dogs?! Rabbits or squirrels?!

Many people consider themselves "cat people" or "dog people." I remember one women saying that, when they got their first cat, her husband commented that their apartment now "felt like home"...


Two of our children live with cats...

Terry and I have both lived with cats and dogs as pets - in our younger years - but we now enjoy animals that fend for themselves... outdoors - like squirrels and rabbits... (as long as they don't damage anything)!

The other evening, as we drove onto the driveway in the dark, Terry pointed out a rabbit... then slowed down so as not to hit it. He often comments about seeing rabbits in the yard.

I don't share his enthusiasm for rabbits. I don't mind them. I mostly don't notice them. They're fine - a little boring, perhaps. But that's the way they like it.  They don't want to be noticed.

I get excited when I see squirrels - fast moving dare-devils - walking on wires, hanging on branches... They often make me laugh.

I wonder what that says about each of us: A "rabbit person" married to a "squirrel person"! (We're both definitely different!)

(Did I mention that I also like skunks?!)

Sunday, January 26, 2025

Don't Worry!!

They say: Don't judge a book by its cover... But I sometimes buy books because of their covers - often because I find the title and/or illustration interesting or inspirational.


A case in point is the cover of this book I recently pulled out as I sorted through my books, wondering if I should get rid of any.

I've had it for years - but I've never read it. It's apparently about childhood abuse - a topic I don't enjoy reading about.

As a child, I was surrounded by a large, loving family - especially my mother's 10 siblings whom my brother and I were very close to. There were a lot of "cheerleaders" around us.

But as a child, I was also a worrier - I'm not sure why... Maybe it's a trait I inherited from my grandmother... And I tend to worry still.

The cover of the book - which I now have sitting out where I can see it - reminds me to focus on RIGHT NOW - not on an uncertain future. Everything is fine TODAY. Looking at it gives me comfort.

DON'T WORRY!

(But I do envy those born with a carefree spirit!)

Saturday, January 25, 2025

Still Thinking About Christmas

A month after Christmas, most of us have stopped thinking about Christmas gifts...



But I know a 5-year-old who is still reflecting on the joy and mystery of presents brought by Santa to those lucky enough to NOT be on the NAUGHTY list.

(It occurs to me that the word NAUGHTY isn't used much any more - except perhaps concerning Santa's "naughty and nice lists"!)

In any event, our five-year-old created Santa's workshop out of pieces of colored plastic that stick together magnetically. (I don't know what they're called .) The dimensions had to match his replica of Santa's sleigh, which was parked on top.



It was all very exciting for both of us.

I heard recently (online - so it must be true) that seniors who spend time with children live longer. We'll see about that - but I did return home surprisingly energized.



I do need extra energy these cold, dark - but still very beautiful - days.

Friday, January 24, 2025

Christmas Cactus Update


This is what my Christmas Cactus looks like in daylight... And below what it looks like in the the early dawn.


The buds are getting bigger, but still no flowers, as I expected them to look...

I have so many questions:


  • Will these little buds ever bloom?! (Or are these the flowers?!)
  • Is this a different kind of cactus from the one in my friend's sunroom - with its long cascading leaves and string of flowers?
  • I've heard there's also an Easter Cactus... Is that what this one is? 
I guess I'll just have to wait and see!

Thursday, January 23, 2025

My "Circular Diary"

On January 1, I started a "circular diary" - a pictorial graph illustrating some of the highlights of each day.

There have been no nature walks - but there have been dental appointments, indoor flowers blooming - and squirrels I see through the window.


There have also been cold snaps, like the one we're just coming out of.

So I recently started adding various shades of blue in the center to indicate how cold.


I've enjoyed working on it at the end of each  day.

I've already prepared my February graph... I don't anticipate adding too much outdoor information for a while yet - unless we have an early spring and I start to spend more time outdoors.

But we've passed the halfway point in Terry's "hundred days of winter" - so that's progress!

Wednesday, January 22, 2025

Yes, That's Us!

One day last October, a friend stopped by. As we were standing outside talking, a vehicle drove down our street...


That's the Google map photographer, taking pictures of Ottawa's "street views," Terry commented - so we all looked.

Sure enough it was!

A few days ago, Terry happened to check our "street view" - and, sure enough, there we were!

Tuesday, January 21, 2025

Wrinkles...!

Innocent - but tough - questions sometimes come from children...

Grandma, do you LIKE having wrinkles? my 8-year-old granddaughter recently asked, as we both were standing in front of a mirror...


(What to say? I don't want her to fear getting old...)

I don't mind them, as long as they're "happy" wrinkles that make my face look happy. I don't like wrinkles that make me look sad or angry, I finally replied.

(There was a long pause...)

Grandma, did you have wrinkles when you were my age?

I don't think so... Maybe a few...

(Maybe I should look for a few pictures of me, when I was her age, just to check!)

Monday, January 20, 2025

Things Do (Sometimes!) Change

In our early years together, Terry was more conscious of time than I was. Though always punctual for work, at other times I must have been "relaxed" about arrivng on time. I remember Terry giving me a talking-to about how disrespectful it was of other people's time to keep them waiting. Couldn't disagree with that... so I tried to change my ways. 

But, even as I became more punctual, Terry became more "relaxed"! Didn't expect that to happen!

Life was busy for many years and we did our own thing: I arrived EARLY at my job as a teacher - so that I could collect my thoughts before students arrived. 

He often arrived LATE at his job. But it usually didn't matter, as he then stayed late till the work was done.

Recently, things have changed again! I still like to be punctual - but, as I comment to friends - I'm lucky if I get more than one thing done in a day! I definitely try not to plan more than one.



But Terry now is has a DAILY LIST of THINGS TO DO - noted on his calendar. And he aims to get them ALL done.

I have no problem with that... If he wants to be that organized, good for him!

But very recently, he's started putting things FOR ME to do on his calendar - and repeatedly asks me if they're done yet...

I'm not a fan of that! Hoping THAT will change! I need things to do tomorrow, too... and the next day... I'm in no rush!

Sunday, January 19, 2025

Natalie's Birthday!

Today we celebrate Natalie's birthday...


So many great memories of time well spent... JOYFULLY spent!


Looking forward to MANY ...


MANY MORE!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Saturday, January 18, 2025

Neighborhood Action

Two cats roam free in our neighborhood - one all black, the other all white. 


The white one appeared in our yard yesterday - camouflaged by the snow.


She's a friendly kitty, with a pink collar and a tag. She seemed to be enjoying her day outdoors...


Seeing her skirt around the shed and slip under the fence, I assume she has a planned route. She's done all this before!

We also have coyotes and foxes in the neighborhood. Our neighbor Kim sometimes notices the coyotes in the college grounds on her way to work. 

I hope this friendly little cat doesn't encounter them. She may have an advantage with her claws - and her aptitude for scooting under fences - but I think coyotes run faster than cats.